Our Chastity Contract
We’ve been playing with chastity for a few years now. We both really like it and wanted to try something longer with a bit more structure.
This contract is inspired by a few we found online. Our favorite part so far is naked cuddling. We find that it enhances intimacy and acts as no-pressure foreplay.
There are probably way too many items in this list, but it will be fun to try!
Keys
The keyholder will keep two sets of keys to the slave’s chastity cage. One key will be kept in a smart lock box for emergency situations. The other key will be worn by the keyholder.
Slave must always lock up at night before the start of a lock cycle, never in the morning.
Orgasm
Mistress decides whether slave will orgasm and how slave will orgasm. Orgasms of any kind can only occur under mistress’s supervision, and may be full ejaculatory, ruined, prostate, or caged.
If mistress allows slave to ejaculate, slave must clean up after himself. If mistress allows slave to cum without the cage, he must lick it clean regardless of location. If slave cums in his cage, mistress will feed it to him with her fingers. No exceptions.
If slave ever orgasms without permission, he will be severely punished.
Porn
Slave is allowed to view Reddit / pornography with permission.
Prostate training
Slave is allowed to train for prostate orgasms with permission. If slave gets close to prostate orgasming, he is allowed to climax.
Infraction definitions (updatable)
Orgasming before mistress during release time play
Orgasming without asking permission during any play
Viewing pornography without permission
Failing to work out 3x per week
Failing to be cleaned and prepared for anal play by 730
[others as defined by mistress]
Punishment (updatable)
No orgasms of any kind for 5 days
Extend lockup period by X days
Hard spanking with paddle
Testicle slaps
Dress up humiliation
Slave tries to suck his own dick for X minutes while mistress watches
Slave does naked exercises with the largest butt plug for X minutes
Slave must suck a wall mounted dildo for X minutes
[others as defined by mistress]
Mistress’s sexual needs
Chastity serves both the mistress and slave’s needs. As such, the slave agrees to serve mistress in any way she desires, at any time. Slave also agrees to fuck mistress with his released cock whenever she desires. Slave will be locked again after fulfilling mistress’s needs and is not guaranteed an orgasm of any kind.
If mistress is concerned about slave orgasming too quickly after being released, she may agree to provide a ruined orgasm prior to intercourse. As always, the slave is required to clean up his cum to thank mistress for allowing a ruined orgasm.
Lockup check
The slave must provide photo or video evidence proof that he is wearing the chastity cage when the keyholder demands a chastity spot check. Failure to comply with this request within a timely manner (generally no more than 5 minutes barring work calls) will result in loss of any orgasm for 5 days.
The slave is responsible for cleaning of the chastity cage. Once a week the slave may request freedom from the cage for a deep cleaning, including shaving pubic hair.
Pegging
Mistress agrees to peg slave 1 time per week at her discretion. This will be on Tuesday or Wednesday, so slave is expected to be clean and prepared before 730pm on both of those days. During these sessions, slave is only allowed prostate orgasms if approved by mistress. There will be no penile stimulation of any kind, including the wand.
Begging / Trying to get released
Slave is allowed to beg, ask for release or physically seduce mistress. Slave must stop immediately if instructed.
Exercise
Slave must work out at least 3x per week during the lock up period. Mistress will monitor Tonal records to ensure slave complies. If slave does not work out 3x per week, mistress will determine an appropriate punishment.
Traveling
Slave is allowed to remove the cage before flying and must put it back on after going through security. Slave will bring the key lock box in his bag and must confirm the key is locked in the box after putting the cage back on. Afterwards, mistress will provide the code for the lock box so slave can remove the cage before the return flight and / or if slave has an emergency.
Naked cuddles
Slave and mistress agree to spend at least 15 minutes every night naked cuddling. This will occur after 730pm. During this time, slave may not initiate any sexual touching.
Any daily punishments will occur before naked cuddles
Teasing
Mistress agrees to psychologically tease / torment slave during the day with 1 or more texts. This is up to mistress’s discretion but can include general humiliation, fantasies about coworkers, description of post-730 plans, GIFs or Reddit posts that excited mistress, etc. Mistress may set a reminder to do this at the same every day.
This is separate from any ad hoc picture or video requests mistress may demand from slave.
Mistress will login to slave’s Reddit account for ongoing review of followed content. Mistress can unfollow any subreddits she doesn’t want slave viewing. This will help mistress better understand slave’s inner sexual world and how to push his buttons.
Household chores
Slave is to perform at least one, but not limited to, l household chores from the following list.
Slave must report what chore(s) he completed at the end of the day. If slave complete more than one chore he may ask for a reward of mistress’s choosing.
Take out garbage
Empty dishwasher
Load/run dishwasher
Wash kids’ laundry
Put kids’ laundry away
Take out kids’ diaper pail bag
Put away toys
e-Signatures
Both parties agree to review the above rules, be familiar with them, and adhere to them without exception.
Slave: ____________________
Mistress: ____________________
